90 Question Ideas for Writing Your Own Bumble Opening Move

Bumble Opening Moves make it so users can pick specific questions for matches to answer—you can choose from a list, or come up with your own.

A great question to your match should grab attention, spark curiosity, and make replying easy.

But honestly, the pre-picked ones are a bit basic, so if you want to custom-make one, let me teach you how.

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Funny, thoughtful Opening Move questions for guys

1. What’s your go-to excuse to cancel plans…and how can I tell if you’re using it on me?

2. What’s your reddest green flag, and greenest red flag? 

3. What’s your worst pickup line that actually worked?

4. You can only send me ONE emoji to describe yourself. What is it?

5. Let’s say we wake up in Vegas married…how did it happen?

6. Be honest—what’s your most irrational ick?

7. Which one is the biggest deal-breaker: bad texter, bad kisser, or bad at picking restaurants?

8. What’s one thing you’re weirdly good at that I’d never expect?

9. What’s a rom-com cliché you secretly love?

10. If I let you choose our first date, would I regret it?

11. What’s the wildest DM you’ve ever received?

12. Tell me a fact that’ll make me fall for you instantly.

13. If we had to compete on a reality show as a couple, which one would we dominate?

14. What’s one thing that would instantly make you swipe left?

15. Would you rather have me serenade you on our first date or attempt a magic trick?

16. What’s the most ridiculous argument you’ve ever had?

17. If I cook dinner, will you fake liking it or be brutally honest?

18. Which fictional couple do you think we’d be?

19. Hoodies—zippers or nah? Which is the supreme choice?

20. What’s the tea about your friend group?

21. Would you rather cuddle up for a movie or go on a spontaneous adventure?

22. How are you responding to an accidental nude?

23. If I challenge you to a dance-off, do you accept or fake an injury?

24. What’s your worst date horror story? Let me see if I can top it.

25. What’s something ridiculous that gives you an ego boost?

26. You’re in charge of planning our spontaneous weekend getaway—where are we going?

27. What’s one thing you’d change about dating apps? (Besides me not swiping right on you sooner).

28. Are we ordering the same meal, or are we that couple that shares bites of everything?

29. Would you rather plan the date or be surprised?

30. If I brought you breakfast in bed, what food would win your heart?

31. What’s something small that someone can do that instantly gives you heart eyes?

32. What’s a compliment you never get tired of hearing?

33. If we had a couples TikTok account, what kind of content would we post?

34. Tell me something random that makes you insanely happy.

35. Which one are you: dance-floor superstar or wallflower with great commentary?

36. What’s the weirdest thing you’re proud of?

37. What’s your ultimate “act of service” love language move?

38. If we had a couple’s costume, what would we dress up as?

39. If you had to compare your flirting style to a movie character, who would it be?

40. We can only wear one color for the rest of our lives—which one is it?

41. If we had to tell people we met in a cooler way than Bumble, what’s our story?

42. You can only use three emojis to flirt with me: what are they?

43. Who’s your least favorite cartoon character that everyone loves?

44. If you were a drink, what would you be? 

45. What’s a dish you’d want me to cook for you for dinner?

Flirty, witty Opening Move questions for girls

1. What was your last Google search?

2. If you had to serenade me in public, what song are you picking?

3. If we end up dating, what’s the one thing I’ll roast you about forever?

4. You get to plan our first date—other than drinks, what are we doing?

5. What’s your favorite TikTok trend?

6. What’s your toxic trait in relationships? (I promise I won’t run…yet).

7. What’s one thing you absolutely refuse to split in half?

8. On a scale of 1 to “I already planned our wedding,” how compatible are our star signs?

9. What’s your go-to move when you’re trying to impress someone?

10. What’s one thing that’s an automatic green flag for you?

11. How long would we last in a zombie apocalypse?

12. What’s the dumbest thing you’ve ever done?

13. If I caught you staring at me across the room, how would you play it off?

14. What’s your guilty pleasure song?

15. You can only take one thing to a deserted island—what will it be?

16. What’s one thing you suck at but wish you didn’t?

17. If I asked your ex about you, what would they say?

18. Let’s say we’re locked in Target overnight—what’s the first thing we do?

19. What’s your best smooth-talking line?

20. Are you more of a spontaneous road trip guy or a plan-it-all-out guy?

21. Tell me something that would make me like you instantly.

22. What’s a weird flex you have? Win me over with it!

23. What’s your go-to party trick? 

24. Would you rather have dinner with your hero or meet your childhood crush?

25. If I gave you my Spotify, what song would make you judge me?

26. What’s a small thing that someone can do that makes you instantly like them more?

27. What’s one thing I should never say to you on a date?

28. Are you the type to text back in 2 minutes or 2 business days?

29. Tell me one thing you’re irrationally passionate about. I’m hoping I like it too.

30. What’s one thing you do that’s oddly attractive?

31. If I made a TikTok about you, what would it be titled?

32. Would you rather cook me dinner or take me out to your favorite spot?

33. What’s your signature drink order, and does it say anything about you?

34. Would we be that couple who argues over directions or just vibes and gets lost?

35. What’s the weirdest fact you know that I probably don’t?

36. I have one shot to impress you—how do I do it? Should I be nervous?

37. What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received?

38. Be real—are you a blanket thief or a blanket sharer?

39. You have to pick a celebrity to narrate our love story. Who is it?

40. If we had a cute couple nickname, what would it be?

41. What’s the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you on a date?

42. What’s your weirdest “I refuse to date someone who…” dealbreaker?

43. Let’s say we’re the last two people on Earth—what’s the first rule of our new society?

44. If we were in a reality show together, what would the title be? Low-key, I think it’d be something silly.

45. What’s one thing you’re irrationally confident about?

How to Write Your Own Bumble Opening Move Question

Your Bumble Opening Move is a question on your profile that makes it easy for matches to start a conversation with you. A great question grabs attention, sparks curiosity, and makes replying effortless.

What Makes a Good Opening Move?

• Easy to answer – Don’t make your match overthink. Keep it light and fun.
• Shows personality – Make it reflect your humor, interests, or vibe.
• Starts a conversation – The best questions invite a back-and-forth exchange.
• No yes/no answers – Open-ended questions work best for engagement.

Examples of Great Opening Moves

💬 Flirty: “If we got locked in a store overnight, which aisle are we raiding first?”
😂 Funny: “What’s your most ridiculous ick? I won’t judge… maybe.”
🤔 Thoughtful: “If you had to pick one song to describe your dating life, what would it be?”

RizzBio can help you generate your own question based on your personality to make sure you are on same page from beginning.

How to Choose the Right Question for You

• Want to show humor? Go for a playful or quirky question.
• Love deep conversations? Pick something thoughtful.
• Prefer a little flirting? Add a fun, flirty challenge.

Make sure your question feels like you! If it sparks a reaction and makes someone excited to reply, you’ve nailed it.