90 Hinge Match Note ideas to attract the right matches

Tired of wasting time on matches that don’t align with what you want?

Hinge Match Note lets you share key details upfront—whether it’s your relationship goals, dealbreakers, or a fun fact to spark a real conversation.

This guide will show you how to attract the right people with this Hinge feature, so get ready!

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Relationship Goals & Intentions

*Make it clear what you’re looking for in dating and long-term compatibility.

1. I’m looking for something serious, but believe great relationships start with fun and connection. If you feel the same, let’s chat!

2. Dating with intention but not rushing—let’s see if we vibe before labeling things.

3. I value deep conversations, mutual effort, and real chemistry. Do we have this in common?

4. Serious about finding something real, but also serious about winning at board games. Hope you’re competitive.

5. Not here for pen pals—if we match, let’s plan a date and see if we connect!

6. I believe in intentional dating. What’s one quality you’re looking for in a partner?

7. Looking for a relationship that’s supportive, fun, and built on shared goals. What’s something important to you in a partner?

8. If you’re emotionally available, communicate well, and love a good laugh, we’ll get along just fine.

9. I’m dating to find my person, but I believe in letting things unfold naturally. No pressure, just good vibes.

10. If we match, tell me—what’s your idea of a great first date? Instead of just drinks.

11. Attracted to people who are kind, emotionally intelligent, and ready for something real. Let’s see if we click!

12. If your dating goal is something meaningful but still full of fun, we’ll get along!

13. I’m looking for a relationship that feels easy and exciting at the same time. What’s your approach to dating?

14. I’m over the games—here for a real connection with someone who knows what they want.

15. Looking for something meaningful with someone who knows how to balance deep talks and humor.

16. I appreciate deep talks and shared adventures. If that sounds like your vibe, we might match well.

17. Here for something serious but still want to laugh our way through it. What’s something silly that always makes you laugh?

18. I want a relationship where we both bring out the best in each other. What’s one quality you admire in a partner?

19. If we match, let’s not just chat endlessly—first round on me.

20. Serious about dating but don’t take life too seriously—what’s your ideal relationship dynamic?

21. I value loyalty, kindness, and effort. What’s something you think makes a relationship last?

22. I’m looking for a teammate, a best friend, and a partner all in one. If you’re on the same page, let’s talk!

23. If effort, communication, and quality time are your love languages, we’re a perfect fit.

24. If you’re emotionally available and love good conversations, let’s make this match count!

25. I’m into relationships where both people put in equal effort. If that’s your thing too, say hi!

26. I’m looking for a mix of romance, adventure, and genuine connection. What’s your ideal relationship vibe?

27. I believe dating should be fun, but also intentional. If you agree, let’s chat!

28. Building a connection that actually lasts is greater than mindless swiping. What’s one thing that helps a relationship grow?

29. I value emotional intelligence, kindness, and someone who actually texts back. Simple, right?

30. I love dating someone who is playful yet serious about the future. Do you think that balance is important?

Lifestyle & Compatibility Habits

*Setting upfront expectations about daily life, routines, and how you fit together

1. I travel often for work, but I always make time for the right person. Hope you don’t mind spontaneous getaways!

2. I’m an early riser—if you sleep until noon every weekend, this might not work. 

3. My ideal Sunday includes a mix of adventure and relaxation. What’s yours?

4. I’m a dog person—if you prefer cats, I promise to negotiate peace talks.

5. I don’t drink, but I still love a great night out. If that’s cool with you, hit me up!

6. I love cooking and trying new foods. If you’re a takeout person, we might be the perfect balance.

7. I thrive on deep convos and love learning new things. What’s a topic you could talk about for hours?

8. I’m happiest when I’m outdoors. If hiking, beach days, or road trips excite you, we might click!

9. I prioritize fitness and wellness, but I also love lazy Sundays. Do we balance each other out?

10. I love live music, art, and new experiences. What’s your go-to way to spend a Saturday night?

11. I’m always planning my next trip. If you could go anywhere tomorrow, where would it be?

12. What’s your ideal date vibe, and what’s your favorite spot in town for it?

13. I work a lot, but I believe in making time for the right person. What’s your work-life balance like?

14. I’m a big reader—if you have a book recommendation, I’m all ears!

15. I prefer meaningful conversations over small talk. What’s something interesting about you?

16. I love sports, but I won’t force you to watch every game. Maybe just the important ones?

17. I don’t do well with passive-aggressive texters. If something’s up, just tell me!

18. I believe in celebrating little things in life. What’s one small thing that makes you happy?

19. If you had to describe your ideal weekend in five words, what would they be?

20. What’s a core part of your self-care routine?

21. I’m an ADHD babe, so expect some chaos from time to time!

22. My guilty pleasure is reality TV. What’s yours?

23. I love hosting game nights—think you can handle my competitive side?

24. I try to stay active and healthy but will never say no to late-night snacks.

25. I love people who are spontaneous but also appreciate a good plan. Which one are you?

26. Do you believe in Astrology? Because I need to know if we’re compatible.

27. Homebody or always out and about? Let’s see if our lifestyles match.

28. Long drives with great music are my simple pleasures. What’s your go-to road trip playlist?

29. I’m an introvert who loves extroverts. What’s your social energy level?

30. What’s your Love Language, and how do you show it?

Dealbreakers & Must-Haves

*This category helps filter out mismatches by making expectations clear, but in a positive way.

1. Emotional intelligence is a must. If you avoid communication, we probably won’t click.

2. I need someone who loves affection—if you’re not into hand-holding, this might be a struggle!

3. I love deep conversations, but I also need someone who knows how to laugh at the ridiculousness of life.

4. Mutual effort is attractive. I’ll plan dates, but I love it when someone does too! It’s my Love Langauge.

5. Sarcasm and banter are my thing. If you can keep up, we’ll get along great!

6. I thrive in relationships where we support each other’s goals. What’s something you’re working toward?

7. I believe in respecting everybody and not only your significant other—is this you?

8. I don’t ghost, play games, or chase. If you’re the same, let’s talk!

9. I can’t date someone who doesn’t respect personal growth. What’s something you’ve improved about yourself recently?

10. I value kindness and respect above all else. How do you show kindness in daily life?

11. I need someone who actually likes to make plans. If you just say “We’ll see,” we might not work.

12. The key to my heart is direct communication—if something’s on your mind, let’s talk about it!

13. Respect and loyalty are everything to me. If you’re the same, don’t hesitate.

14. I love being active and need someone who enjoys the occasional adventure. Couch potatoes, beware!

15. I have a dog who’s basically my child. If you’re not into pets, this probably won’t work.

16. I can’t date someone who’s glued to their phone at dinner—let’s actually enjoy each other’s company.

17. I need someone who enjoys both quiet nights in and spontaneous adventures. Can you balance both?

18. If you can’t handle honesty, we might not be a good match. One thing about me: I value real conversations.

19. Effort is attractive. If you text first sometimes, plan dates, and communicate, you’re just my type.

20. I believe in growing together, not just existing side by side. What’s one thing you want to improve in life?

21. Loyalty and trust are my non-negotiables. What’s something that’s non-negotiable for you?

22. I’m independent but love quality time. If you value both, we’re off to a good start!

23. I need someone who can handle playful teasing. If you take yourself too seriously, we may not get along.

24. I’m looking for a partner, not a project. If you have your life together (mostly), we’ll make it.

25. I need emotional depth in a relationship. If that sounds like you, let’s chat!

26. Consistency is attractive—if you’re into hot-and-cold dynamics, I’m not the one for you.

27. If we match, I expect at least some effort in conversation—no “hey” and disappearing.

28. I need someone who understands that relationships are about teamwork, not competition.

29. If you’re big on honesty, I’m the person for you! I’m looking for someone transparent.

30. Tell me something that makes you a great partner!

What’s a Hinge Match Note & what should it contain?

Hinge Match Note is a feature that lets you share important personal details with a match before the conversation starts—this helps avoid dating burnout.

How does it work?

Go to your profile settings to add a Match Note (255 characters max). You’re allowed to edit or remove it at any time, but know that only matches can view and read your note once it’s up!

Why use a Match Note?

Match Notes are perfect for filtering matches and making important info known from the get-go without sounding too negative or demanding. Here’s what you should include:

1. A key personal detail that matters

Your Match Note should highlight something important about dating you—something that potentially impacts compatibility, like:

• Your relationship goals (serious, open to seeing where it goes, casual);
• Your lifestyle (travel often, early riser, fitness-focused, disabilities, etc.);
• Your communication style (love deep convos, quick texter, prefer in-person);
• A unique trait or value (LGBTQ+ experience, introverted, family-oriented, adventurous).

Example: “Looking for someone who loves spontaneous weekend trips and doesn’t mind entertaining my ADHD.”

2. Keep it positive & inviting

Your Match Note should set clear expectations without sounding strict or negative. Instead of: “No slow texters. No flaky people. No time-wasters.”

Try this: “I appreciate effort in conversations—if you take days to reply, we might not be the best fit!”. A welcoming tone makes people want to engage rather than feel like they’re being tested.

3. Encourage a conversation (optional, but effective!)

Your Match Note should make it easy for a match to reply by adding a lighthearted hook. Ending with a question or fun detail invites engagement.

E.g., “I love deep convos over coffee—what’s one random fun fact you know?”. Or, “First date idea: you pick a spot, I pick the dessert. Deal?”

RizzBio is your online dating assistant for jobs like this; based on your character and life, it generates ideas for your dating profile (prompts, bios, openers, etc.). Don’t miss out on quality matches!