“What are your green and red flags?” is basically the dating app version of holding up a magnifying glass to someone’s soul, but, like, in a fun way.
Are they a “double texts without shame” kind of green flag or a “says ‘let’s hang’ but never makes actual plans” type of red flag?
This opening move is the perfect mix of psychology, tea-spilling, and low-key self-roasting. Don’t we all have a few ✨questionable✨ traits?
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Common flags seen in communication styles:
Let’s talk about how someone communicates because that says a lot more than just their words. The way someone texts or talks can make you feel certain ways, and some things are major green/red flag indicators.
💚 Green Flag:
You hit them with clear, thoughtful texts that aren’t just “k” or “lol” (we need full sentences). You actually share how you feel, no games, just vibes. When someone’s open and direct, you leave nobody guessing, and that’s a whole green flag!
🚩 Red Flag:
You’re sitting there staring at a “k” reply and wondering if they’re mad or just not into it. Or when they never use punctuation, and they’re all about the lowercase vibes.
Are they typing like it’s a homework assignment or are they texting with feelings here? Communication is key! If they’re too chill with leaving you hanging or can’t even muster up a full sentence, that’s a major red flag!
The grass is greener on the other side, and so are these answers:
What are your green flags?
1. I text back fast…unless I’m napping, then good luck.
2. I remember your random niche interests and bring them up unprompted.
3. I will 100% save you the last fry (or at least pretend to offer).
4. I actually plan dates instead of the dreaded “idk what do you wanna do?”.
5. If your phone is at 1%, I’m already handing you my charger.
6. I hype you up over the most minor achievements (brushed your hair? ICONIC).
7. I double-text because I don’t believe in playing games.
8. I can quote our inside jokes at perfect moments.
9. I don’t hold the door just for myself.
10. I don’t have 457 unread texts (because why would I?).
11. I will always know when you need comfort vs. tough love.
12. I can hold a convo without bringing up my ex. That’s my most random skill!
13. I’ll notice and compliment the little things (like when you change your phone wallpaper).
14. I keep my “read receipts” on because I have nothing to hide.
15. I refuse to let you embarrass yourself alone.
16. I don’t “forget” my wallet when we go out.
17. I won’t let you leave my house without snacks.
18. I have an elite selection of comfort movies ready at all times.
19. I’m the first one on the dance floor if it means hyping you up.
20. I will never judge your Spotify Wrapped, no matter how cursed it is.
21. I send “home safe?” texts because I actually care.
22. I don’t let you overthink your texts—just hit send.
23. I ask for your opinions before making plans.
24. I don’t post cringe couple posts (unless we agree to it).
25. I actually respect “I’m not in the mood to talk” without taking it personally.
26. I use exclamation points in texts so you know I’m not mad.
27. I make an effort with your friends because they matter to you.
28. I always bring gum. Hey, you never know!
29. I don’t judge your slightly weird eating habits. I’d be really proud of you either way.
30. I actually watch the movie when we say “let’s watch a movie”.
31. I give you a heads-up before FaceTiming instead of just calling unannounced.
32. I never let a text convo die with a dry “lol”.
33. I never let you go to an event underdressed (or overdressed).
34. I match your chaotic energy when necessary. That’s how I show I care.
35. I check in on you even when nothing’s wrong.
36. I always have a backup plan if something falls through.
37. I make eye contact when we talk (instead of looking at my phone).
38. I give genuine compliments, not just generic ones.
39. I never let you go into an awkward social situation alone.
40. I keep an extra hair tie just in case you need one.
41. I always notice when you get a new haircut.
42. I bring you soup when you’re sick.
43. I respect your weird little superstitions. I low-key think they’re real as well.
44. I actually listen instead of waiting for my turn to talk.
45. I make sure you never feel like you’re talking to a wall.
Do you see red with these red-flag answers?
What are your red flags?
1. If I always have to text first, I’m out.
2. The second they say “I don’t like labels”, I already know what’s up.
3. Calls themselves an “alpha” unironically? Immediate no. I’m hoping you don’t do that.
4. “Let’s just go with the flow” = run.
5. When they hit me with “we should hang soon” but never follow through.
6. A “gm” text with zero punctuation, no emoji, and pure dry energy? Do better.
7. If they still talk about their ex in every other conversation, I might as well date them instead.
8. Not making actual plans and just texting “wyd?” 24/7. Where are we going with this?
9. I mention something I love, and they go, “Oh, I never really got the hype”. Congrats?
10. Tells me they’re “super blunt” but in reality, they’re just rude.
11. If I open my phone and they’ve left me on delivered for 12 hours while posting stories…bye.
12. When I ask “How was your day?” and all I get is “Good”. That’s it? That’s all you got?
13. If their only personality trait is playing devil’s advocate in every convo, I’m out.
14. I tell them I’m feeling down, and they hit me with “That sucks”. Gee, thanks!
15. Has a playlist with zero Seventeen songs. I can’t trust them.
16. They keep their AirPods in when I’m talking to them. Am I background noise?
17. I mention my pet, and they say, “I’m not really an animal person”. 🚩🚩🚩
18. Still rocking the “Netflix and chill?” joke in 2025. Be serious.
19. If I tell a funny story and they don’t even chuckle, it’s personal. I’m known for being funny, so they have no excuses.
20. Texts back “K” when they’re mad instead of communicating like an adult.
21. The energy is amazing in person, but their texts are so dry I need a glass of water.
22. Doesn’t say “bless you” when I sneeze. Feels illegal.
23. Eats off my plate without asking like it’s their meal.
24. Says “I don’t really do birthdays”. Okay, but I do.
25. Plays music out loud on public transportation like it’s their personal concert.
26. Takes a huge sip of my drink after saying “just a little taste”.
27. Leaves the Brita filter empty. Criminal behavior. Hopefully you’re also into cleaning all the time.
28. Doesn’t like tagging along to my Target trips.
29. They’re never wrong. Ever. Like…not once.
30. Posts everything we do together…but my face is never in it.
31. Starts a debate over every little thing. I’m not in a courtroom.
32. Hates when people make plans but never make any themselves.
33. Tells me to “chill” when I’m excited about something. There are so many things that I like that I will never shut up about!
34. Their whole personality is complaining about their job but they never try to change it.
35. Acts differently when their friends are around. Who is this person?
36. Cancels plans last minute but then goes out with other people.
37. Thinks they can win arguments by just talking louder.
38. Hates on anything popular just because it’s popular.
39. They don’t have a favorite song. Like, not even one?
40. The way they treat waiters? Instant red flag detector.
41. Hates surprises. Even fun ones.
42. They just have to argue about everything.
43. Sends a one-word text after I just wrote a paragraph.
44. “I’m just bad at planning”. Cool, I’m bad at tolerating that.
45. Thinks it’s funny to make me jealous on purpose. Congrats, you played yourself.
Swipe smart, stay Rizzed up!
At the end of the day, green flags keep things exciting, and red flags keep you dodging heartbreak like an Olympic sport. Knowing your own deal-breakers is half the battle!
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