There are so many ways to show someone you care when you love them IRL, but what about when it’s just through a screen?
How do you prove you’re serious about someone you think you could love? Well, that’s when you put the “I show care by…” Bumble prompt on your profile!
Consider this prompt honey, and your match Winnie The Pooh—proving that you’re husband/wife material will quite literally sweeten the pot and make them swipe right.

Attentive and mindful answers: Personal attention!

“I show I care by…”
1. Listening fully without interrupting because your voice matters.
2. Giving my undivided attention even when life feels busy and I would rather sleep instead. 🤪
3. Checking in on your day, not just out of habit, but because I want to know if you hit on another person today.
4. Surprising you with your favorite snack or a playlist for your mood—a mocha with a side of dark chocolate.
5. Sharing small joys, like sending you pictures of things that remind me of you.
6. Writing notes on your food like you are a little kid for no reason other than to make you laugh for the day.
7. Planning dates that show I know what makes you do the happy dance.
8. Holding space for your feelings without judgment.
9. Learning your love language so I can love you better. Was it touching…or making you tea?!
10. Active listening like I’m your personal therapist.
11. Offering quiet comfort in your opinions when we argue even if I disagree with them.
12. Placing a pillow behind you so you can sit comfortably and trauma dump all you need to.
13. Letting you vent without trying to “fix” everything.
14. Making you yap on and on about your favorite childhood stories.
15. Noticing when you’re quieter than usual and checking in.
16. Paying attention to the books you mention wanting to read and getting one for you.
17. Noticing when you’ve had a long day and offering to handle dinner.
18. Truly listening to you, not just waiting for my turn to speak.
19. Paying attention to what excites you even if that’s a bit weird. 🙃
20. Listening closely and following up on what you mentioned days later.
21. Hearing your worries and reassuring you when you need it most.
22. Focusing on the here and now when we’re together. Let’s chant together…ooouummmm! 🧘
23. Pausing to reflect on what you need instead of jumping to conclusions.
24. Finding new ways to call you, even if my phone battery dies.
25. Respecting your boundaries and honoring your personal space, even though it feels like 1,000 knives in my back.
26. Being intentional about creating a calm and loving environment.
27. Celebrating the things you love, even if they’re outside my comfort zone.
28. Paying attention to your tone and body language. If it’s slightly different I will know.
29. Learning your triggers like a video game cheat sheet and dodging them like a pro—no unnecessary boss battles here!
30. Sharing moments of stillness. Basically, we’ll sit in silence and judge others.
Answers about fun activities: Spending time together!
“I show I care by…”

1. Organizing a Disney trip together like we’re back in 7th grade.
2. Taking dance classes even if we both have two left feet.
3. Inviting you to sketchy places but making it glamorous with air balloons as a fun touch.
4. Spending lazy Sundays doing absolutely nothing and calling it quality time.
5. Suggesting random movie marathons to make you laugh and torture you at the same time
6. Exploring new food spots with you even if we end up with food babies.
7. Going to the gym together, trying to be fitness gurus and failing, obviously.
8. Exploring local parks and getting miserably bored.
9. Trying to make custom mugs, even though we’re both terrible at pottery.
10. Making a vision board for our future together—is this over the top?!
11. Cuddling on the couch, eating popcorn, and not knowing which movie to pick.
12. Drinking coffee in silence while we both scroll through our phones—because that’s a healthy obsession, right?
13. Planning cozy nights in.
14. Planning a little picnic, complete with bad sandwiches. I’m apologizing in advance.
15. Enjoying simple moments with you—sometimes just sitting together on the balcony.
16. Making a scrapbook of our worst selfies, because nothing says love like bad angles.
17. Taking random Sunday trips to see something new.
18. Learning something new with you. How about we rehearse the multiplication table?
19. Making spontaneous plans that end up being a hilarious disaster.
20. Forcing you to join me in making a terrible dish in the kitchen.
21. Turning every mundane errand into a romantic version of an animated movie storyline.
22. Not drinking coffee before you wake up. The real commitment, believe me!
23. Inviting you everywhere I go in a non-clingy way.
24. Binge-eating chocolate with you while we complain about the calories.
25. Organising mystery trips. You never know where you may end up, so be careful.
26. Taking too long to find the best spot for seafood.
27. Suggesting new ways to fool you into playing new games so I can win.
28. Plotting how we can sneak candies into the theater like smooth operators.
29. Organizing silly theme nights—I’ll rock the Dracula outfit if you find it attractive.
30. Picking out every fridge magnet decoration there is.
Spicy, flirty answers: Romance!
“I show I care by…”

1. Staring at you a second too long, just to make you blush.
2. Slow dancing with you in the garden, barefoot, making our feet all dirty.
3. Playing with your hair because it makes my world a better place.
4. Making you bubble tea from scratch and getting nervous about whether you’ll like it or not.
5. Walking you to your door, even when it’s freezing outside in January—though, honestly, that’s the bare minimum.
6. Finding you wild strawberries in the forest.
7. Making sure your hands are always warm in mine. 😍
8. Calling you cringe nicknames like “shmoopsie” just to make you laugh.
9. Shutting down my phone and giving you my full attention—you’re my social media right now.
10. Keeping eye contact and saying the most beautiful words, while magically pulling a flower stem out of nowhere. 🎩✨
11. Fixing your blanket when you fall asleep first.
12. Preparing a cup of chocolate milk with marshmallows, all to woo you into marrying me!
13. Telling you that falling for you was the best “oops” of my life.
14. Holding your hand when we watch a horror movie.
15. Making reservations—it sounds simple and silly, but low-key, it’s incredibly sexy.
16. Sending you a postcard with a cute note whenever I go!
17. Planting some herb seeds for you because I know how busy you are.
18. Giving you some forehead kisses.
19. Flirting with you using snacks and wine.
20. Eliminating everything on my agenda just to listen to you tell me your same stories.
21. Giving you flowers—I know it’s cheesy, but I think the only thing that will forever resist the passage of time is flowers.
22. Playing your favorite song when we drive somewhere, even if it’s just to the grocery store.
23. Fermenting some kimchi for you so you don’t have to. Pretty flirty, right?
24. Singing you a song to get you out of a bad mood.
25. Baking you a carrot cake or taking a trip to the local wildlife sanctuary to see some fluffy animals.
26. Peeling fruit and feeding it to you. If this isn’t romantic, I don’t know what is.
27. Remembering the little things and sharing random, sweet reminders.
28. Bribing you with sweets and little treats. My ultimate green flag.
29. Checking in even when you don’t ask. How about an after-work Shepherd’s Pie?
30. Stealing a kiss from you just like the Grinch stole Christmas.
What tells matches you’re relationship material?

Chances are you’ll come across people looking for a fling on dating apps. But, in my humble opinion, these apps should mostly be about showing you’re actually ready and actively looking for something real.
Multiple things hint at a person who’s hubby/wifey material, and you can use yours in your answer to this prompt.
– Consideration: Tell Bumble matches that a relationship is a two-way thing and that your future partner won’t have to sacrifice for you.
– Readiness: Dating apps are notorious for having users with commitment issues, so this prompt is your chance to show matches you’re ready for a real relationship!
– Romance: No matter who, romance in a relationship MUST be present from time to time because it’s what keeps the passion alive.
– Priorities: Who doesn’t like feeling like a priority in their relationship? Take this golden opportunity to tell people your love language is putting your beloved first.
– Fun: People don’t want boring relationships, so showcase your awesome humor (mixed with some flirting, of course!).
– Acts of service: A personal favorite and a must for this prompt—you can answer by making it known how getting things done for your partner’s sake is your style.
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