Every side has two faces: head and tail, yin and yang—and this prompt is no different. When it comes to showing what makes you a catch (and what might drive them nuts), honesty is key.
Of course, you’re not going to admit, “I have a con of picking my nose” (that’s for later), but you’ll highlight the things that show both your good and not-so-good sides.
Strike the perfect balance, keep it real, and cover what’s necessary without overcomplicating it.
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The goodies: the ultimate gold habits and personality traits that make you Bonita inside and out.
From intelligence to artistry, cooking skills, listening ears, and acts of service—anything goes.
Pick the trait that suits you the most, and combine it with one of the Cons I’ve listed after the Pros section!
“A pro of dating me…”
1. I’ll never judge you for eating dessert first thing in the morning—because I already ate mine.
2. I love spending money on you, and I don’t find it wasted if it makes you happy.
3. On paper, I’m kind and intelligent.
4. I love the feeling of love, and I love to love.
5. I’m cute.
6. I can always admit when I am wrong.
7. You’ll never have to eat the tomato from your burger—I’ll take that bullet.
8. Haven’t killed anyone yet, normal amount of limbs, and sometimes I’m funny.
9. I’m the kind of person who claps when the plane lands.
10. I’ll laugh at all your jokes, even the bad ones.
11. I have a slightly above-average number of limbs.
12. My phone battery is always charged, so I’ll never “ghost” you.
13. I won’t cheat because that would require more than one person to like me at the same time.
14. I give hugs that feel like your favorite blanket on a winter morning.
15. Well…I can put my foot behind my head.
16. I’m low maintenance.
17. I’m your go-to person for spontaneous road trips…even if it’s to the grocery store.
18. I’m great at overthinking, so you never have to worry about doing it yourself.
19. I cook, give massages, am in good shape, and will treat you like no other.
20. I’m smart, passionate about what I do, have a high libido, and love movie nights with beer and pizza.
21. I’m an awesome cook and will make you wonderful food at your desire.
22. My partner will be my number one priority and the center of my universe and that makes for a great relationship.
23. I can save you from boring conversations with a fake emergency text.
24. I can whistle like a pro and have a voice fit for radio.
25. If I’m sad or need a distraction, I will bake things—most likely cookies.
26. I will always love you, no matter what.
27. I’m affectionate and easygoing. If I truly care about you, there isn’t much you could do to make me lash out or start an argument.
28. I’m very easy to please. I just need a benefactor to fund my diet, a balcony, and an isolated cottage near the sea.
29. I’ll constantly buy things for you, i.e., food, fun, etc.
30. I don’t go out much.
31. You wouldn’t have to complain about being single.
32. I have a job, a car, and I’m getting in shape.
33. I’m extremely easy to get along with, and I’m always willing to listen and compromise.
34. Good cook, organized, laid back, and willing to try new stuff in bed.
35. I come with a lifetime supply of dad jokes—no refunds.
36. You’d be getting someone who believes in you no matter what.
37. I have the capacity to love immensely.
38. I have a high libido, and you will have the fastest orgasm ever. I hope you are really into that.
39. I genuinely want to spend time getting to know you and who you are as a person.
40. I truly care about how your day went.
41. My personality is like a 9.
42. I’m a very good cook and like to play (video games, sports, etc.)!
43. I’m a lot of fun a lot of the time, and not terrible looking!
44. I have a steady job, work daily, eat a healthy vegan diet, perform stand-up comedy, and have a 6-pack.
45. I’ve got a good career, a car, a home, self-awareness, good hygiene, and a good relationship with my family.
46. I’m a pastry chef; I will go out of my way for you, I like dogs and perfect Sundays.
47. I know how to get your attention.
48. I have a grad degree and a great consulting job, I’m learning Spanish, and I love concerts, plays, painting, dancing, and picnics.
49. I’m amazing at small talk and even better at avoiding it
50. I’m a former pro athlete who’s been called handsome, confident, and husband material. Fun fact: two women have proposed to me.
51. I’m a pastry chef, I will go out of my way for you, and I like dogs.
52. I’m tidy, and I can make pretty much anyone laugh.
Sincere, yet witty answers!
Definitely, there are areas we can improve, but it’s time to unleash them. There’s no way to build a relationship without acknowledging the bad as well.
The temper, the bad habits, nonverbal cues, addiction to fast food, laziness, attachment issues—everything that belongs to the streets.
However, these can’t seem that bad if you start with a good pro and end with a bad con.
“A con of dating me…”
1. I’ll eat your fries, even if I said I wasn’t hungry.
2. I’ll roast you mercilessly—but only because I like you.
3. If you are the one that made me sad I will not let you eat any of my homemade cookies.
4. I will rely on you too much for my own happiness.
5. I have attachment issues and I won’t disagree with that.
6. I don’t go out much.
7. I’m mute and only attracted to sea creatures.
8. You have to date me.
9. I’m a pathological liar.
10. There’s a chance I won’t believe you actually care about me.
11. I’m not good at communicating when I’m angry/mad and am non-confrontational in relationships.
12. You would be frustrated at how much alone time I like to have.
13. I have crippling self-esteem issues.
14. I get irrationally competitive over board games.
15. I don’t like my lower back being touched—also, allergic to Mary Jane.
16. I can be very blunt and sometimes passive-aggressive but in a cute way.
17. I try really hard to be the life of the party because, you know, clinical depression.
18. I’d rather be a sugar baby than work a 9-to-5, I’ve got the classic blues combo, and nope, I’ve never seen Harry Potter.
19. I have no money, unfortunately.
20. In practice I’m a nervous wreck.
21. I will encourage you to dislike the people I dislike.
22. I become defensive when corrected.
23. I have a PhD in overthinking, and you’ll be my favorite research subject.
24. I’m prone to bouts of the moody blues—I’ll snap out of it eventually, but until then, I’ll be distant and just the right amount of pissy.
25. My looks are like a 5.
26. I occasionally make questionable life choices and never learn from them.
27. I’m hard to convince I’m wrong.
28. I’m terrified of being alone but I also hate being around people.
29. If you leave me I’ll put you in the book I’m writing.
30. I travel a lot and I’m probably never home.
31. I’m a bit picky about food, clothes, and lifestyle, and I have a habit of whining a lot and am very terrible at decision-making.
32. I’m needy, complain a lot, and talk about myself more than I should.
33. I will push you away as soon as I begin to get tired of you or feel too much for you.
34. I’m clingy and get super attached easily. My mood will depend on you.
35. My love language is interrupting your stories with my own.
36. I’ll probably get jealous, but I’ll pretend I’m not.
37. Literally pure evil. I can’t be within 50 feet of a church without bursting into flame.
38. I’m a talker, sometimes more than I should.
39. I have a knack for getting myself into awkward situations.
40. If I give a $hit about you, I’m gonna become paranoid and jealous fast.
41. I’ve been told I’m a bit bossy (I’m working on that).
42. I’m a terrible housekeeper. Not good with money.
43. I’ll steal your hoodie and low-key never give it back.
44. I’m a little compulsive texter.
45. I can get really grumpy when I don’t have my coffee first thing in the morning.
46. I lean into nihilism often.
47. I’m a hot mess express, and I can’t stop the train.
48. I can be a little needy, but I promise it comes with a lifetime supply of cuddles.
49. I will probably move to another country within six months of meeting you.
50. I have trust issues and I’m stubborn, especially when it comes to which side of the bed I like to sleep on.
51. When I’m frustrated, I yell or shut down. My feet are always cold, and I’m known for it.
52. I have an expectation that if I try to contact you, that contact should be returned in a timely manner.
How to mix & match your Pros & Cons?
Alright, now we’re at the toughest part: mixing and matching the pros and cons.
And you’re kind of feeling nervous and stuck on what to pick because, well, you just know yourself, right?
So, let me help you get a better idea of what might go well and what might not:
Traits…
Yin & yang: This is a mix of very good and very bad—This screams, “If you love me at my best, you gotta stay at my worst!”
Pros → “I’m extremely easy to get along with, and I’m always willing to listen and compromise.”
Cons → “I’m a bit picky about food, clothes, and lifestyle, and I have a habit of whining a lot and am very terrible at decision-making.”
Romantic & Avoidant: Someone who loves the first stages of butterflies, but the moment the butterflies die, it’s time to avoid it.
Pros → “I love the feeling of love, and I love to love.”
Cons → “I will push you away as soon as I begin to get tired of you or feel too much for you.”
Persona…
Wallflowers: For people who are quiet but very loving and caring, not being very good verbally, and can’t stand people or resolve any problems for that matter.
Pros → “I’m affectionate and easygoing. If I truly care about you, there isn’t much you could do to make me lash out or start an argument.”
Cons → “I am simultaneously terrified of being alone but I also hate being around people.”
Schmoozers: So fun to be around, but they can never be home and are always out and about enjoying life. They either show so much love or ignore you completely.
Pro → “I’m smart, passionate about what I do, have a high libido, and love movie nights with beer and pizza.”
Con → “I will probably move to another country within six months of meeting you.”
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