Many couples break up because there’s something they do not see eye to eye on—dealbreakers! If you’ve chosen the “You should not go out with me if” Hinge prompt, this is how you answer honestly without coming off as harsh:
Sincere, meaningful answers: “You should not go out with me if…”
- You are a smoker. Sharing the same environment with a smoker as someone with asthma is a bad idea.
- You don’t have your college finished; at least your Bachelor’s Degree. Having an academic background is very important for me.
- You cannot handle my very awful singing skills. My voice is worse than a crow and I’m not even kidding.
- You don’t go to the gym or try to maintain an active and healthy lifestyle.
- You would get mad if I can’t remember your birthday. Remembering dates is not my biggest forte.
- You prioritize superficial connections over meaningful relationships. I’m looking for something serious!
- You believe in outdated gender roles in relationships. For me, men and women are equal and they should be treated as such.
- You don’t have a driver’s license. I don’t and I need someone to take me to places!
- You cannot make me laugh. I discriminate against unfunny people because I want to cry laughing tears on our first date.
- You believe that serious discussions can’t be interrupted by random memes. Just a sneak peek into how dating me is.
- You can’t handle jokes and you take yourself too seriously.
- You want to have kids. Not the kind of life I imagine myself having, so let’s not waste each other’s time.
- You snore at night. Noise makes me anxious.
- You don’t like village life. I live in a village and expect you to love it or at least tolerate it.
- You are overly jealous. I don’t want that kind of negativity in life.
- You are a feminist. I’m a firm believer in traditional gender roles and we might not see eye to eye on this.
- You chew too loudly. Yikes, that would absolutely drive me crazy.
- You don’t think you have to be the sole provider. I love a man who takes pride in providing and taking care of his partner!
- You’re not up for spontaneity. Just know our first date will be…different!
- You have a habit of lying. I don’t tolerate liars…not to mention they’re way too obvious.
- You can’t handle my bubble gum pops being bigger than yours.
- You’re not good at communication. It’s not my job to teach the basics—I need someone who’s grown enough to have already mastered that.
- You’re a horrible texter. Don’t waste my time if you cannot commit to texting, please!
- You think “Netflix and chill” is just about Netflix. It’s also about eating popcorn.
- You are an Andrew Tate fan. That would make my flower drier than the Sahara.
- You are a misogynist. I believe in mutual respect and equality in relationships, and that’s non-negotiable.
- You are not pro-choice. If you disagree that people should be in control of their bodies, do NOT approach me.
- You are a mama’s boy. I don’t want to date your mother, I wanna date you.
- You drink alcohol—I don’t want a partner who cannot have fun without it.
Funny answers with a hint of honesty: “You should not go out with me if…”
- You believe in astrology and other types of voodoo stuff. We can debate this if you’d like.
- You can’t accept my passion for social justice. I take social movements and protests very seriously.
- You believe dogs should be kept only outside.
- You don’t have a forgiving nature. Holding grudges is a no-no for me.
- You want to do 50/50 on the first date.
- You believe planning is everything. What if I want to eat pancakes tomorrow and that’s the only thing on my agenda?
- You don’t date to marry. We need to be on the same page.
- You don’t like to collect fun facts about random things—like why the sky is blue!
- You think stereotypes are funny. They’re not, but I’m here for the punchlines that uplift.
- You want to have a long-distance relationship. Video calls don’t count as a date; I’m not dating a screen but a real person.
- You are below 6 feet tall. No hate for short kings, though!
- You don’t know how to cook. A grown person who doesn’t know basic skills is so unattractive.
- You don’t have at least 100k savings in your account. I’m high maintenance.
- You don’t believe in red flags and green flags; for me, everything in the relationship is based on these.
- You believe growth stops after school. I wish I could tell the younger me that there’s much more to life than academics.
- You can’t handle a little sarcasm. Being a cry-baby won’t get us far into the relationship.
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- You believe every date should have a script. I’m more of a let-it-flow type of person.
- You think matching sweaters are cheesy; I’m sorry but that’s a hard NO!
- You judge others based on their fashion choices. I believe what we wear should reflect who we are, not who society wants us to be.
- You’re a morning person. I’m a night owl who haunts other people’s dreams, yours including.
- You can’t handle a strong opinion about which Batman is the best and why exactly Michael Keaton.
- You consider puzzles lame. I think this is where the line would be drawn.
- You don’t like bird-watching. I mean, come on…who wouldn’t want to?
- You don’t find reading amusing. My life is measured in books, so if you don’t like them, you don’t like me.
- You don’t agree ideologically with me. I think it’s vital to protect our planet for future generations and you should think the same.
- You believe politics are boring. Leave a comment if you’re also obsessed!
- You have racist views. Not being able to appreciate diverse viewpoints is a dealbreaker.
- You think that women only belong in the kitchen and the laundry mat.
- You have the habit of snooping on your partner’s phone. Having trust issues doesn’t do it for me.
- You are not financially stable. I like having that kind of stability and comfort in life, especially in this economy.
- You have a lot of online presence. I’m convinced I’m simply not cut out for that life.
Relationship-based answers and dealbreakers: “You should not go out with me if…”
- You tend to hyperbolize stuff, have megalomanic traits, and are generally boastful.
- You have long nails. Those long nails with weird designs and colors are just a turn-off for me.
- You have face tattoos. Those things are there to stay.
- You think Conservatives should win any political elections.
- You think physical intimacy is the first priority. I prefer to start with an emotional connection and see where it leads.
- You’re not open to spontaneous decisions. I’m very flexible and like to enjoy life less strictly.
- You don’t think I should have female/male friends. I consider that very toxic.
- You can’t appreciate a well-timed movie quote. It’s literally my love language.
- You cannot keep a clean home. I like someone who is neat and keeps the place tidy.
- You think making misogynistic or transphobic jokes is funny. I have zero tolerance for any form of hate or discrimination.
- You are a bad kisser. I don’t care how funny or hot you are, if you don’t know how to kiss then it’s a deal-breaker for me.
- You’re insecure. I’m talking about the “don’t wear that!” type of insecure.
- You think relationships require love only. What happened to trust? Respect? Consideration?!
- I’d be the only interesting thing going on in your life.
- You’re still on friendly terms with your exes. A bit toxic, but that’s my boundary.
- You’re incapable of respecting people other than your significant other!
- You can’t stand 24/7, non-stop chatting because I love talking.
- Cheesy, romantic things aren’t your favorite. I’m a hopeless romantic.
- Your idea of fun is lounging around and doing nothing. I’m a naturally adventurous person!
- Trashy TV gets on your nerves. It’s my main source of entertainment.
- You’re not ready to be surrounded by a huuuuuge group of friends regularly.
- You’re easily annoyed by crybabies. And let me tell you, I cry for no reason at all sometimes.
- You’re into private relationships. I wanna show you off the world!
- PDA bothers you. I go crazy for it.
- You don’t take holidays seriously. I grew up in a “go all out for holidays” family!
- You don’t want to live in a household with more animals than people.
- You cringe easily. My dad jokes may be D-tier at best, but I’ll never stop telling them.
- You don’t want your house to be filled with useless crap.
- You hate cheesy, flirty lines that will have people rolling their eyes in public.
- You can’t set boundaries with others.
What should your answer contain?
If I had to compare this prompt with another, it’d be the “Something that’s non-negotiable for me is” one where you discuss boundaries.
This prompt has sparked a lot of discussion on TikTok: should you choose it or not?
- One girl suggested opting for the alternative prompt where you state what you’re looking for, highlighting the exact qualities you desire.
- Another girl argued this prompt is perfect for signaling deal-breakers, making it clear that you won’t compromise on your standards.
When it comes to relationships, there are two main approaches to consider: One like dogs (unconditional love), and one like cats (focused on consent and boundaries).
1. Values
Looking at values is key. Whether it’s your perspective, political beliefs, or what you hold to be true, knowing these makes it easier to decide what to write and which answers to choose.
2. Main goals
What you’re looking for determines this prompt entirely. Choosing the best answers is usually closely tied to your main goals—what you want to achieve and what you want to avoid.
3. Serious Deal-Breakers
This is crucial and needs to be considered. It’s what distinguishes you from your partner, and if you don’t move past this level, you never will.
4. Funny Deal-Breakers
Though lighter in nature, these answers still express certain concerns funnily. Choosing this type of answer gives you a playful tone and a great chance for a much lighter conversation afterward.
But don’t worry, because RizzBio will generate the perfect prompt answer for you, outlining your dealbreakers and turn-ons so that you receive quality matches only!
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