I see a lot of ruckus surrounding the “The best way to ask me out is by” Hinge prompt and none of it is good.
“It comes off as arrogant!” or “Everyone has similar answers!”…and yeah, that’s usually the case. I’ll give that to you.
What’s crazy, though, is people saying this prompt is NOT for straight men because of society. I thought we already moved past such stereotypes.
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This prompt is for girls, boys, and all my introverts out there! RizzBio is about to show you the best, most creative ways to answer it.
Ironically funny answers: “The best way to ask me out is by…”
You can solve all of this prompt’s issues (you know, with it having generic, similar, and/or arrogant answers) through humor.
- Some kind of reference (to movies, for instance);
- Sarcasm;
- Irony;
- Or a joke (such as jokingly picking something impossible).
All of this shows your matches you have wit and don’t take yourself too seriously, which, regardless of your gender, will attract more matches.
I can’t promise you you’ll get asked on dates by everyone as that depends on other factors too, but it will sure as heck make people laugh and swipe right.
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1. Drawing a pentagon on your floor, calling your friends, and summoning me. Then you can ask me out for drinks, I guess.
2. Showing up at my work and pulling the fire alarm. I get a much-needed day off AND we can hit the movies!
3. Stalking me around to find out what I like to eat and drink, where I like to go, and who my friends are. Joe Goldberg style.
4. Throwing rocks at my window at night to get my attention. I come out and we can work something out before my dad starts chasing you down the block.
5. Spelling “Do you want to go on a date” with alphabet soup.
6. Hacking my computer and asking me then. Just let me know it’s you and not those bots claiming to be Kathy, 40, hot single milf in my area.
7. Zooming through the sky to where I’m at and having a superhero landing. Ask me if I wanna grab dinner sometime and then zoom out!
8. Fake-kidnapping me behind a Wendy’s and scare the sh*t out of employees.
9. Doing it on binary code. I won’t understand it, but I love nerds’ ways of asking people out.
10. Sending me an extremely professional email asking me out for drinks and signing off with “Pours truly”.
11. Telling me a date and time and when I show up, you’re not there. Turns out you were just a figment of my imagination…
12. Leaving little hints around town containing details about our date. Honestly, if it involves me eating pasta, it’s worth it.
13. Chanting “Candy Man” 3 times. Just don’t be afraid when I show up.
14. By beating around the bush and stumbling over your words as you do it. Ugh, so cute.
15. Accidentally throwing a basketball on my face as you’re playing with friends. After taking me to the doctor’s, we can grab a quick lunch.
19. Writing “WANNA GO OUT, [MY NAME]?” on a banner in one of those games where they show you on the big screen!
20. Intensely staring into my eyes from across the room as you slowly make your way to me while holding a very creepy smile. DO. NOT. BLINK.
21. Coming to my door dressed as a door-to-door salesman and trying to pitch a sushi date with me. Oh, and you gotta have the obnoxious voice too.
22. Dressing up as the puppet from Jigsaw, getting a small bicycle, and coming over to me to ask if I want to play a game—dinner and drinks after!
23. Recommending a restaurant your exes frequent. Oh…that’s not a thing? So I just have crappy luck?
24. Telling me you’ve implanted a bomb in my house and the only way to convince you to disarm it is by going to brunch with you!
25. Coming over to my place of work and insisting I go out for drinks with you even though I’ve told you no 100 times. The ladies loooooove that.
26. Strapping a letter containing our date’s coordinates to a pigeon’s leg. If it comes to me, good! If not, well…I guess you can text it to me.
27. Baking an apple pie and leaving it near your window so that I float towards the smell and into your house. We can eat said pie after.
28. Dropping by my job with your jetpack and giving me flowers with a note attached saying “Dinner at 6 pm, wear something fancy”.
29. Paying someone to dress up as Bowser and stop me in the middle of the street while you, dressed up as Mario, come to my rescue.
30. Shining the bat signal at the sight sky. I’ll show up at your location and we can eat snacks and watch a movie!
31. Finding all of the Dragon Balls and then asking Shenron to get us two on a date.
32. Asking me out in a very normal way, to a very normal place (probably for seafood), and then revealing to me midway you’re a spy on a mission.
33. Showing up in my dream. You must be wearing a hat, a blouse with red and green stripes, and those Wolverine-esque gloves.
34. Air-dropping me memes and if you make me laugh at least 3 times, approach me so that we can make plans for lunch!
35. Baking me a fondant cake spelling “Dry Martinis at 8?” with icing. I’m more likely to say yes if cake’s involved.
36. Playing a match of Scrabbles with me. If you can spell the food you wanna eat on our date, I’m all yours.
37. Saying “Date?”, giving me a specific time and location, and then showing up just to give me a date…THE FRUIT. Malicious compliance at its finest.
38. Going to one of Cut’s “The Button” episodes and getting to know each other for hours until the crew becomes annoyed and kicks us out.
39. Making a Reddit post in which I’m gonna comment. We can go back and forth arguing and then decide on which restaurant to go to at the end.
40. Mailing me one of the concert tickets with no additional details. I show up there, and you gotta find me!
41. Leaving a 5-star review under my business complaining about how the owner is so rude because she hasn’t gone on a date with you yet.
42. Building me another Taj Mahal…or movie tickets to watch Smile 2. But you gotta sweeten the pot by paying for the popcorn.
43. Purposely falling into my arms at the metro and then slipping me a piece of paper with your number on it in my pocket.
44. Dressing up as a model casting agent and scouting me. Make my day AND my night, please.
45. Sending me a video of your dog doing tricks. If they listen each time, we can go wherever and do whatever you want!
46. Dueling me in a sword fight.
47. Inventing a new language and asking me with it. I’m a linguist, so don’t worry about me not getting it.
48. Leaving a pot of gold on my doorstep while wearing an all-green outfit and hat. I bet that’s what you thought my Irish self would say, huh?
49. Doing it while we’re on a flying carpet and you’re singing me a song about showing me the world.
50. Getting us into Love Island. Nah, just joking…or am I?
51. Giving me a Matryoshka Doll where the paper containing our date info is in the last layer. Fingers crossed I don’t get frustrated and throw the doll away.
52. Shaking a Scooby Snacks box in front of my face.
The “50/50” approach: “The best way to ask me out is by…”
The “50/50” method for this specific prompt is when you and your potential matches build a date plan together.
- Activities;
- Date & time;
- Location.
For instance, if your answer talks about the activity you want to be doing (e.g., eating sushi), matches will be more compelled to finish the puzzle by replying with the location THEY have in mind.
This way, your answer won’t come across as lazy or specific, but instead approachable!
As for the whole “straight men can’t use this prompt” conundrum—meanwhile, a lot of women indeed hesitate to make the first move, the 50/50 approach may help take their hesitation away because you’d be initiating too.
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1. Anything involving Mexican food 3 weeks from now—Christmas break WOOHOO!!
2. Having a whole day’s worth of fun planned out…but leave the evenings up to me. I know just the bar for us two.
3. Suggesting we do something that requires a lot of physical activity. We can gain the calories back by eating lava cake later that evening.
4. Asking me what my favorite foods are and then finding the best places that serve them. Let’s Wheel of Furten the finalized idea!
5. Letting me know when you’re free and what you want to do—I’ll take care of the rest.
6. Showing me a list of new upcoming festivals in your town. I’ll choose whichever catches my eye.
7. Sending me a photo of the food you’re making with the caption “Hmmm…I sure hope I had someone who could rate my cooking over some wine.”
8. Presenting me with 5 different restaurants you swear by. It’s food, so I’m bound to like at least one of them.
9. Does it include swimming? I’m sold. I’ll leave the rest of the deets up to you.
10. Enrolling me in a dancing class. Don’t tell me where or what kind—I wanna be surprised!
11. Booking us a city tour where we walk around the cool parts of the town. Let’s grab some brunch when we get tired.
12. Sending me a bouquet, but not with flowers…I’ll leave what up to you.
13. Giving me a puzzle containing the details of our date and making me put it together. Just please don’t make it too big.
14. Making a Craigslist ad looking to sell your other game ticket. Just send me the link and I’ll buy it.
15. Choosing any video game where we can go against each other. Add me to your lobby, and the winner picks the place!
16. Sitting down for a D&D game with me. Seems a bit nerdy? You fool! You have full creativity authority.
17. Reaching out to my best friend and telling her what you have planned. She’s kind of like Sphinx, so you have to answer her questions.
18. Calling me, screaming for help.
19. Calling me down for a rowboat trip during the night with food on board. I’ll be generous and leave the food & drinks up to you.
20. Explaining the entire Five Nights at Freddy’s lore in a way I understand. If you succeed, meet me for Mojitos.
21. Blasting House music on max and busting out a couple of fire moves.
22. Doing it when the sky is clear at night so that we can stargaze. Extra brownie points if you bring star-shaped cookies. Pun intended.
23. Challenging me to karaoke. Mama didn’t raise a b!tch, so put your money where your mouth is!
24. Setting a world record on the fastest someone has accepted a date. I’ll even help you out…given there’s chocolate involved.
24. Unexpectedly handing me ice skates. I’ll one-up you with dinner reservations, just tell me if you can handle spicy food or not.
25. Finding an escape room that’s easy enough for idiots like me to solve, but fun nonetheless.
26. Carving my name on cheese and setting a huge mousetrap in front of my door.
27. Learning a magic trick and making opera tickets appear from thin air.
28. Getting my middle school bully to apologize and try to matchmake us.
29. Buying a kite we can fly together. I’ll match your energy and bring a picnic blanket and snacks!
30. Telling me you wanna skydive…after which I’ll laugh and lowball you by suggesting we go to Canoe and you can pick our menu.
31. Showing up at my door on a horse wearing knight armor and handing me tickets to Post Malone concerts, all while saying nothing.
32. Giving me a surfboard on what was supposed to be a nice sunbathing session while drinking Pina Coladas at the beach.
33. Leaving a fruit basket on my porch. Not to spoil the fun, but I might make dessert with the fruits you gave me and call you over.
34. Getting me Knicks tickets. The hot dogs and drinks are on me!
35. Doing it right after I wake up. I say yes to just about anything while drowsy. As long as it doesn’t have to do with beers. Yucky.
36. Making it a double date. If you have the right guy for my hopeless romantic of a bestie, I’ll even treat you to drinks later.
37. Purchasing Six Flags tickets for us. Hopefully we don’t get too sick because I wanna buy us dinner later that night!
38. Mentioning hockey. That’s the way to my heart. You can choose the game.
39. Finding extremely secretive coffee shops. If the coffee is good, it’s on me. If not, it’s on you.
40. Taking me bowling but not going easy on me just because I’m your date. Consider this a heads-up because I’m a pro!
41. Taking me to see an improv show. I promise I won’t laugh, and if I do, dinner’s on me.
42. Getting us Disneyland passes. The snacks are on me!
43. Bribing me with cupcakes. ANY cupcakes!
How NOT to answer this prompt?
This prompt gets a lot of attention, but not the kind you’d think; it’s mostly people complaining about how unoriginal and dull Hinge users are.
If you want to avoid that, RizzBio can help by giving you answer examples that no one else has used AND make you equally as popular with matches.
This is all possible through the RizzBio technology that takes your fascinating points, and converts them to Hinge prompt answers.
So, what do RizzBio experts say you should NOT answer “The best way to ask me out is by…” with?
– “Just ask me” or “Just tell me the date & place”.
My eyes do a 360 from all that rolling when I see a response like these two because they’re so far off removed from the actual purpose of the prompt.
The purpose is telling matches what gets you going—how you want to be asked out.
Are you romantic? Realistic? Do you enjoy the fine things in life or the simple ones? Well?? Which is it?!?!
See how much an answer like this lacks? So, provide details.
– “[insert bare minimum]”.
Although I’m not telling you to write an answer that says you want a Prince Harry, you don’t want to say you’re okay with a just chocolate bar either.
“Buying me a drink.”—this makes you appear as someone with extremely low self-esteem and no creativity.
Yeah, it might attract some people, but not the kind you want to bring home to meet your parents.
– “[insert bare maximum]”.
On the opposite end, your answer is better off not saying something like Having 10k blue roses delivered to my house.” unless you’re being ironic.
It makes you sound materialistic and oftentimes shallow—not judging, by the way, because get your bag, boo!
But when reading this prompt, most people expect (and enjoy) something humble, yet fun.
You can even imply you’re open-minded enough to spend some coins on the date as well, like with the “First round is on me if” prompt.
– “Doing what I want, when I want it, how I want, it, where I want it, and you get no say in it”.
I cannot stress this enough: please please please don’t be too limiting and specific because you might seem like a brat.
A date is something you and your match should plan together, as demonstrated in the 50/50 method.
For instance, if you choose the spot like in the case of the “I know the best spot in town for” Hinge prompt, you can leave the time and date open.
Now that you know what to do and what NOT to do, you’re ready to answer!
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